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Thursday, June 19, 2008

Paperwork received and more.

Terra at AWAA confirmed receipt of our paperwork! Based on her e-mail there is a slim chance that we will make it to court before they close in August. If we don't make it I will be sad for several reasons. We really wanted to travel with William and Susan since we started our adoption journey together. I will be sad because BOC will remain in the Transitional Home until October or November.

On the other hand I will breathe a sigh of relief if we don't make it to court by August. Igor will start kindergarten in August. I want to be there when the bus picks him up for the very first day of school! I want to help Igor develop a school routine before BOC arrives. Life is better when Igor has a clear routine.

Public school will be very different than Ms. Joya's nursery school. Based on yesterday's the report from Igor's teacher at camp, we may be in for a long kindergarten adjustment period. Perhaps we will be better off if we deal with one adjustment at a time.

So we'll wait to see if we receive a court date before they close in August. Rob and I are ready for the wait. We waited 6 months for Igor's court date. I hope we don't have to wait that long for BOC.

Honestly, I am okay with whatever happens. I know that God's timing is perfect. He knows what is best for our family and he has never failed us. It helps to know that BOC has a nanny that adores him. We will get reports on BOC from the director of the transitional home. We will be able to send care packages to BOC while we wait. The Raymers will take a picture book, some cars and a teddy bear to Ethiopia for us. They leave on July 5 to pick up their boys!

Holly And Paul were in Ethiopia last week picking up their son. Holly took a few pictures of a toddler boy who hadn't been referred. She was sure he was going to be our son. She was right! She sent us pictures this morning. THANK YOU HOLLY!

Igor's birthday party is tomorrow. We asked Igor who he wanted to invite to his party. He named one child! I wondered, is that a party or a play date?? This is further confirmation that 3 is a crowd in Igor's book. It's Igor's party so we invited the one friend. Well, I invited the child's family over for dinner and cake. Papa and Babushka will be joining us. More on the birthday in another post.

4 comments:

ethiHOPEia said...

Yeah! I am glad Holly had the foresight to take pictures! I do hope you are able to get in before the courts close...however it sounds like you have made emotional preparations in case it doesn't happen. So glad to hear/read your encouraging thoughts once again!
Blessings,
Hilary

Carpenters said...

I'm so glad that you have a peace about whatever happens with the court closures. We'll be praying that God will bring BOC into your family at just the right time.

Happy Birthday, Igor! Have a great birthday party.

With Love,
Penelope

jill coen said...

Boy, Candy, you are a testament to the peace that God can give. Beauty and grace!

jill :)

shawn and tisha said...

Candy,
I'm so glad AWAA has received your acceptance! Like Penelope, I pray that God will let everything happen at the perfect time. Also praying the transition to kidergarten will be a smooth one.

I hope Igor had a good birthday!
Happy Birthday Igor!! :)
Tisha